David Boillot, 51 and Amber Elias, 25 were taken into custody on suspicion of sex crimes involving Elias’ three children aged 14 months, 4 years and 5 years old. Elias may have kidnapped them from her former husband’s home in San Diego. Their father became suspicious when the children were returned and he reported to the police that he believed they had been molested and abused.
The police arrested Boillot on suspicion of three counts of public sexual indecency, one count of child molestation and three counts of furnishing obscene material to minors, according to police. Elias was booked on suspicion of two counts of public sexual indecency, two counts of child molestation and three counts of sexual abuse.
The unbelievable truth: Pedophiles/Ephebophiles conduct themselves as average and ordinary to the world. He or she may be a leader in the church; the community; business executive, doctor, lawyer, school teacher, bus driver, or janitor. Pedophiles/ephebophiles seldom fit a classic stereotype—education, socioeconomic status, career or culture.
Furthermore, sexual abuse/incest is more difficult to believe or accept when the person we like, admire, love, and/or marry is the perpetrator. Pedophiles/Ephebophiles are cunning predators with a honed mode of operation. They are experts at manipulation, thus escaping adult reality. They feel entitled, justifying their actions as loving; not harming the child. They create a persona of goodness beyond reproach. They go to great lengths to present themselves as exemplary people, who love children, and expend considerable energy maintaining this illusion to themselves and others.
Dorothy M. Neddermeyer, PhD, author, “If I’d Only Known…Sexual Abuse in or Out of the Family: A Guide to Prevention, specializes in: Mind, Body, Spirit healing and Physical/Sexual Abuse Prevention and Recovery. As an inspirational leader, Dr. Neddermeyer empowers people to view life’s challenges as an opportunity for Personal/Professional Growth and Spiritual Awakening. http://www.drdorothy.net
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